See Top Reasons Why Upcoming Artistes NEVER Become Famous In Nigeria (No. 2 Is Soo True!!)

Have you sat back and wondered why most Nigerian upcoming musicians never make it in the industry?

It is because they are not talented?

If you are an upcoming musician then you better continue reading..

Below are some reasons why upcoming musicians in Nigeria never become famous:

1- Pride

Pride is a determinant factor of how a precarious music artist will elevate in his musical career.

Yet it is evident that this habit is popular among upcoming heads in Nigeria.

They always give an exaggerated expression of their financial status through flamboyant dressing on social media.

This false lifestyle eventually alienates them from help.

2- They Don’t Advertise Themselves

Nothing comes cheap in Nigeria.

To become famous, you have to advertise yourself aggressively in the highly competitive music industry and the internet is a very vital tool.

Advertising your tracks on good music websites, for example,Naijaloaded.com.ng, where ardent music lovers are always at alert to download songs and share with their friends.

Sharing your song links on social media platforms like Instagram and Twittergives you a chance of being noticed.

3- They Patronise Cheap Producers

You need not to sing like Michael Jacksonbefore you become famous.
And, the impact of good production cannot be overemphasised.

Most upcoming artistes are fond of patronising shady producers who produce low quality contents at a cheaper rate.

4- Use Of Widespread Instrumentals

Most well known producers in the industry, including: Young John, Dj Coublon, Ekelly, Masterkraft, Kezyklef, Killertunes dish out dope beats free of charge online.
However, most upcoming musicians do not make use of this initiative, instead, they resort to over used instrumentals.

5- Lack Of Creativity

What makes a potential artist standout iscreativity and uniqueness.
Yet, many upcoming artistes fail to get to the peak of their dreams because of lack of creativity.

6- Immature Lyrics & Chorus

Good lyrics and punch lines is all you need to at least gain some recognition, especially as an upcoming head.

When you listen to the songs of many upcoming artistes in Nigeria however, you will keep wondering if the songs were composed in the space of 2 minutes, garnished with uncoordinated lyrics.

Some will sing a chorus repeatedly for about 4 minutes after which a short verse will follow and that is it. Sickening!

7- Imitating the style of others

To succeed in life, you have to do something others are not doing, or what they have never done.

Rapper Olamide has is ownstyle in the industry.

Lil Kesh is also a good example when it comes to style. You have to fake something to get there, dont be a copy cat

Mr Eazi stepped into the Nigerian music industry with his own self made character that most producers and musicians are emulating his methods.

Every artiste should have his own style which becomes ultimately their brand, so why copy their style as a leverage to also get to your limelight??

Create your own style!!

Do you agree with this write up? Drop your comments below!!

Lets Play! A Gun To Your Head “You Are To Sing One Song Without Any Error OR You Are Dead” – Which Song Will That Be?

Its Sunday Evening & Work will Start tomorrow… *Sad* We need to have alot of Fun before work Start tomorrow. (Monday is a headache for some people).

So enjoy yourself and have a lot of fun tonight. Here is our own way of having fun here on Naijaloaded.

Imagine, A gun was pointed to you head & you were asked to Sing one song without any single mistake. Any Mess up, You are gone but without error, You are Free 😊

Which Song will You Sing?

Let’s talk about it – Drop your Comments.

Story Time: “You All Have 2 Days Left Out Of Your Given 7 Days… But Much Evil Awaits” (Journey To Igbo-Irumole — Episode 12, 13 & 14)

Read Episode 9, 10 & 11 Here

Our thoughts were all strange, at first cus we all know they are going to kill her, but what will they do with her body is our best concern, the hilarious part of it is we all can’t do anything to save her life from the evil hands of the demons who took her away.. with eyes full of tears blanny asked me what the monsters where actually saying when they were taking Cynthia away.. I gave him a quizzical look before I could proffer a suitable answer to that…

Me : the one standing on her left side was saying she looks good for their king while the second one was saying she will look good for nice soup, yet their opinions don’t count. It’s about what they are taking her for..
Vincent : I don’t believe what you are saying..
Me : and I never begged you to do so..
Kola : you guys should just stop this madness, it’s really annoying, let’s look for a way out of this problem, we can’t just stand here and let them feed on us like chicken..

Blanny : yes o, even if I go die I go still try fight like man o
Me : so what do you guyz suggest?
Blanny : I have an idea, one of us will pretend as if he is dead and we will scream and let them notice this, once they are here, we will let them untie him so he will fight dem and quickly untie us, we all will fight them and we run out of here..
Me : hahaha, Blanny you no well I swear, u wan fight monsters with four hands and two eyes without weapon and spiritual support, how on earth will you win the battle?

Kola : Blanny forget about the idea it won’t work, let’s keep thinking of what to do before its too late, we don’t know who next they will come for..
Me : I have a suggestion
Kola : let’s hear you out
Me : ok, I could recall one of those things the herbalist man told us to say when ever we are in danger
Blanny : you be mumu o, why u no remember since..?
Me : you be fool, your brain no de there to remember am?
Blanny : na you be seer na
Me : seer kill you for me.

Kola : ben abeg no mind that fool, pls do it
Blanny : oya nah, time no de abeg..
Me : ok but I don’t know how it works sha o, cus na that time one goat whey no gree talk anything go come begin put all d blame for my head o.
Kola : forget jorh, do wetin you go do.

Then I start reciting what the herbalist man told us, I did that for the first time and nothing happened, the second time, and finally the third time and within a blink of an eye everyone got loosed, instantly we all get up and prepare to run.Then we saw someone coming from the entrance..
See gobe o

….Episode 13….

Omg! It’s one of them blanny said, we all stand and none of us took a step forward, where do you think you are going? He asked in their gibberish language of which I interpret immediately after he concluded his statement, we stood mute and didn’t utter a word. Then we saw some set creature coming from behind, they were actually two . One of them was holding a big pole with his two hands but what amuse us about this was those set of creature where actually humans, but the question is who could they be?..

The one holding a long pole try to hit the monster with it but, before he could the monster caught him and he smashed him down, it was then we could get the clear picture of who that was..”its sege blanny echoed in his high pitched tenor voice ” .and Cynthia was the second person following him, how could this be ?(I thought )
But this is not the right time to ask questions

Without no much time wasting we all stormed the monster and we successfully killed him without no much stress..we ran as fast as we could just to get out of their kingdom before day brake…

After 30 minutes of running, finally we are out of their reach.. we all sat under a big tree fully exhausted and panting hard…for about 5 minutes no one was able to utter a word cus we are all tired..but Vincent finally broke the silent

Vincent : sege how you take do am nah, we think say you don die o
Sege : me die, that one no be this year nah
Blanny : how did you do it, how u take know say dose things catch us

sege : ok, on my way going back, I lost track and I don’t even know where I was heading to, so I started crying like a baby cus I know one of those evil monsters will surely come for me. I decide to sit under a big tree waiting for my death, at first I dozze off then I begin to hear some strange sound approaching where I was sleeping..i quickly stood up and hide behind a big tree, then I saw some set of monsters passing by I was wondering where they were heading to until I saw you guyz being arrested by them, so I began to follow them, till they got to their village that’s all..

Me : but how did you get cynthia and how did you save her
Sege : immediately I got to their village, I traced down where they keep you guyz and I saw them taking cynthia to some where else, so I followed them and I wait till they left her there! I fought with the last one standing next to her and I killed him, Before I could saved her..so she followed me down to where they tied you all, but to my greatest surprise, I saw all of you standing in front of the monster , so I quickly attack him.

Kola : hmmmm sege, you try o.. if no be you and Ben we no know wetin go happen next o .
Blanny : guyz! Look seems something is coming..

….Episode 14….

We all stood up with our last strength and try to run, then the creature quickly raise her hands telling us not to run, but we no believe yet we still wan run..

Blanny : make we no run na
Sege : you de craze? Why we no go run?
Blanny : you no see say na human being?
Kola : fool, you don forget say na igbo irumole you de?
Vincent : ask am o, how you wan take see human being here? Guyz abeg prevention is better than cure o..

Me : Guyz let’s wait, I don’t see evil behind her, she is not a monster
Cynthia : if she no be monster, who she come be? Ben you sure say you de alright?
Me : guy trust me on this, let’s wait.
Vincent : mehn! This ben na fool o,make we de wait for another monster because u just help us comot for one monster hand abi?
Kola : guyz let’s calmdown, ben you communicate with her and we will stay behind you…

Kola stylishly pushed me forward and they all went behind a tree to watch the drama, the creature move a bit closer and she stopped, it’s actually a human but the face is not familiar, she is a beautiful as omotola, I was lost and charmed by her beautiful body before when she summoned me back to my senses with her low pitch soprano voice ..

Lady : hey! Ben..
Me : how did you know my name and what do you want from us *in a scared tone*
Lady : you have spent 5 days here and you still don’t have the idea of who I could be. I want to help you all.
Me : why do you want to help us *still scared*
Lady : calm down, I mean no harm..
Me : who are you?
Lady : am moremi, the goddess of beauty
Me : moremi?
Moremi: yes
Me : ok so tell me what you want from us.
Moremi : right from the first day you all entered this forest, I have been watching your movements , I have seen how the evil monsters of this forest had been killing some of you since, but I congratulate all of you for getting to this point, you all have 2 days left out of your given 7 days..but much evil awaits you all the closer you go in this journey..
Am here to provide the final warning for the rest of you

On hearing this others starts coming out of where they hide.. she went about explaining things to us, moremi lead us from that spot, she guide us across different kind of rivers and evil lake. Then finally she stop.

Moremi : sorry guyz I won’t be able to go further
Me : why na?
Moremi : it’s nothing but this is where I am permitted to reach, but before I go, let me give you the final warning..
SEE the stage you are is more worst than the one u have seen,but if you all could follow the instructions I gave u, all of you will survive ..

To Be Continued Tomorrow… Watch out!!!

Story Time: “A Fish-like Creature Appeared Before Him And Drag Him Down The Water, He Screamed For Help” (Journey To Igbo-Irumole — Episode 9, 10 & 11)

Read Episode 6, 7 & 8 Here

Vincent brought the idea that we should hid somewhere, but kola object him saying it might be very risky cus the monster is very powerful and it moves with wind, we all agree to what kola says,then we put on our touch and we start running, but the problem is we don’t even know maybe we are running towards his direction or not cus the sound keep booming louder and louder.

The day was actually getting brighter, but the moon is still very visible, then something told me we should stop running else we will fall into the deadly monster’s trap,immediately I told everyone to stop running and but some of them disagree saying it’s too dangerous to stop, I warned them that running is more dangerous than stopping after giving them enough excuse, they finally agreed, we all hid ourselves in the bush, then we saw the monster coming from where we all were actually running to..

Cynthia : ah! Tank God o, naso we for enter him hands ni
Me : I told you
Kola : so what’s next now?
Me : the search continues ‎
Vincent : so which direction do we go now ?
Me : we head west
Kola : no , let’s take east
Me : why?

Kola : cus right from the beginning of this search, you have been directing us as you wish and we won’t take that from you, we are not your slaves and you are not even the strongest here, if you wana lead you have to fight for it..now prove yourself strong (getting ready for a fight)

Me : kola, am not trying to lead am just doing what the spirit tells me,so why are you guys getting upset?
Sege : ben we don’t want you as the leader if you want to lead, then take up the challenge
Chris b : yes ben take up the challenge
Me : ok, I agree with you guys, let kola lead..
Kola : good!we head east and it’s high time we defend ourselves we what we have, we don’t have to run always,‎
Me : kola no let’s just keep running we all know we have 4 days left for this search and that has possibly tell us that we don’t have much time.

Vincent : hey ben just shut up, u coward..
We followed what kola said, then we get to a river bank, the water is as pure as a crystal clear glass, but to me, it’s as black as a charcoal.. then everyone try to drink from it..I quickly remind them of what the herbalist man told us,yet they never listen then Chris jumped into it and drank out of it, as he was trying to show others that the water is safe , something strange happened..

….Episode 10….

A fish-like creature appeared before him and drag him down the water, he screamed for help but it’s too late cus the water is already soaked with his blood..then we started running, at this point Cynthia was actually crying while others were scared of what actually happened

Sege : guys see this journey don tire me o,e be like say I go return back home o, no be by force to get money o
Me : Sege u know that’s not possible naw
Blanny : yes, you know wetin we see before we reach here, now only you wan waka go back
Cynthia : Sege please stay na
Sege : no
Kola : guy no do like this na, we go soon see wetin we want
Sege ; after all of us die finish abi? Laye!

Sege turned and walked away, we all did our best to stop him but he never agree to that, we all stand and watch him wade away from our sight. Then kola ordered that we keep moving, we all followed his order and we keep walking till the everywhere start getting dark..
Then I saw some strange creatures moving before us, I can see them from were I was standing but others can’t..

Me : kola! So where do we go from here?
Kola : its almost dark, let’s sleep over till tomorrow
Me : but this area is very dangerous, we can’t stay here
Kola : but we can’t start moving at this dark hour..
Me : kola this area is dangerous, please let’s look for another place to sleep
Kola : no we stay here, and it’s high time you followed my orders cus am the leader, okay?
Me : leader? We are all equal here cus no one appoints a boss when we were starting this quest so stop seeing yourself as one…

I said and walked away, everyone walked towards where kola asked them to sleep,then I interrupt them…
Me : guyz, you all should listen now and attentively, that place you all are heading to is very dangerous and full of evil, even if you all can’t see it, I can. You all should learn that we don’t have any leader here, we are all the same cus I see no reason why one should start acting like the boss when everyone is dying, if you want to follow kola’s order, that’s alright but am just saying mine just to avoid evil..

Kola : ben just shut up,what you all need is a secure protection, and not just an oral protection now if you want to follow me,move this side (he said pointing to his left side )
But to my greatest surprise, everyone followed him

Kola : Mr Benjamin, you see for yourself now, the choice is yours, stay or die alone…
Did he actually called my full name? It’s been long someone called me that, anyways no lele, I have no choice I followed them, as we approach the spot those spirit start hiding themselves..

….Episode 11….

I was really scared but what can I do to save everyone’s life..
As we were preparing to sleep, kola ordered that me and Vincent should guide the area, suddenly the wind started rumbling with most of our belonging, the light wents off and I know evil is coming..

Then we saw lights surrounding us, before we could fight back, they had already surround us and we have no choice than to follow what they say..they all step forward ,and that was when I could get the clear picture of how they look, they all have four eyes (two in front and two behind) , four hands, two legs and one mouth…

The tallest one among them step out of their midst..he walked closer and he gave us a dirty smile,he ordered them to take us away, and others did, they took us to their kingdom where they all live, as we were passing by I over heard them talking to eachother, though others didn’t understand what they were actually saying but I Do..

They tied us behind a tall building with all kinds of human skull and odours smell, and they all left us there, after they left us we start communicating..
Cynthia was the first to brake the silence

Cynthia : *crying * I don’t know why I decide to join this search o, Vincent it’s your fault o
Vincent : how is it my fault and why are u blaming me gan? Shey my sister no die ni?
Kola : you guys should stop all this rubbish! No one is going to die, all we need is to look for a way out of this s–t..
Blanny : ben, talk put nah, Shey u no see anything ni?

I stood silent for over five minutes, that was when I noticed that am unable to see anything cus the place they put us is a power house, no form of magic stuff work there apart from theirs, but the only thing I can do is hear what they say..

Me : guyz gobe don shelle o, I no fit see anything o
Blanny : haaaa! Try na.
Me : av tried all my best but nothing happened
Vincent : am not surprise to hear that sha, cus I never for once believe all u have been saying..
Me : what do you mean?

Vincent : what I mean is very simple, you are not the seer and that’s the truth, cus if u are why don’t you see my sister’s death, why can’t you save her?
Me : what’s this idiot saying, Don’t you have sense at all, even the few I see, do you guys follow it? I might be the seer but I can only see I can’t save..
Kola : heey you guyz should stop this and be calm for once..all we need is the way out

As this was going on two of them came in and they took Cynthia away

To Be Continued Tomorrow… Watch out!!! 

Horror!!! Policeman Stabs Pregnant Wife To Death In Crowded Supermarket After They Had An Arguemnet At Home

Horrifying CCTV has caught the moment a raging policeman stabs his pregnant wife in a packed supermarket as frantic customers try to fight him off. Tragic Angie Katerine Herrera was shopping in a crowded supermarket in her home of Bogota when her off duty policeman husband came storming in.

Cameras in the Colombian store show stunned members of the public looking on in horror as the killer, Frey Vincente Ardila Velázquez, ran up to his wife brandishing a knife earlier this month.

Other shoppers tried to pull the off duty cop off his wife as he repeatedly stabbed her with a knife.
The video footage, which later went viral after being posted online, shows him fighting off two women, knocking one of them to the floor.

The police officer, whose name has not been released, then ran from the store leaving his wife, Angie Katerine Herrera, for dead.

But he was grabbed by eyewitnesses and passersby who held him until police officers arrived to arrest him.

The policeman had followed his wife to the supermarket in the Tunjuelito area of the city after they argued at home earlier that day.

Friends and neighbours said the couple had not been getting on well for some weeks.

The police officer, who was on leave, is being held in police custody and faces murder charges.

Bogota was considered one of the most violent cities in the world in the 1990s but is much improved following a ban on carrying guns in public.

Iran Responds To Trump’s Muslim Ban, Also Bans US Citizens

In response to President Donald Trumps executive order restricting entry of travelers from seven Muslim-majority countries including Iran, the Iranian government has responded announcing it would also not allow Americans to enter its country.

On Saturday, Iran’s Foreign Ministry released a statement on state-run media saying:

“While respecting the American people and distinguishing between them and the hostile policies of the U.S. government, Iran will implement the principle of reciprocity until the offensive U.S. limitations against Iranian nationals are lifted. The restrictions against travel by Muslims to America… are an open affront against the Muslim world and the Iranian nation in particular and will be known as a great gift to extremists.”

Iranian President Hassan Rouhani condemned President Trump’s actions in an address at a tourism conference in Tehran televised live on Saturday on state television.

“Today is not the time to erect walls between nations. They have forgotten that the Berlin wall fell years ago.

“To annul world trade accords does not help their economy and does not serve the development and blooming of the world economy. This is the day for the world to get closer through trade,” he said.

Immigrants And Refugees Left Stranded At Airports After Trump’s Ban On Muslims

President Donald Trump’s order to restrict people from seven Muslim-majority countries from entering the United States sparked confusion and anger on Saturday after immigrants and refugees were kept off flights and left stranded in airports.

In his most sweeping decision since taking office a week ago, Trump, a Republican, put a four-month hold on allowing refugees into the United States and temporarily barred travelers from Syria and six other countries.

Civil rights and faith groups, activists and Democratic politicians were furious and vowed to fight the order.
Capping a day of confusion and chaos and protests in several airports across the country, a federal judge in Brooklyn, New York, granted a temporary reprieve. The American Civil Liberties Union successfully argued for a temporary stay that allowed detained travelers to stay in the United States.

Supporters outside the Brooklyn courtroom and at protests at airports in Dallas, Chicago, New York and elsewhere cheered the decision, but a bigger fight lay ahead.

The court action does not reverse Trump’s order, which was criticized by some of America’s closest allies.

Trump, a businessman who successfully tapped into American fears about terror attacks during his campaign, had promised what he called “extreme vetting” of immigrants and refugees from areas the White House said the U.S. Congress deemed to be high risk.

He told reporters in the White House’s Oval Office on Saturday that his order was “not a Muslim ban” and said the measures were long overdue.

“It’s working out very nicely. You see it at the airports, you see it all over,” Trump said.

Along with Syria, the ban affects travelers with passports from Iran, Iraq, Libya, Somalia, Sudan, Syria and Yemen.

The Department of Homeland Security said about 375 travelers had been affected by the order, 109 of whom were in transit and were denied entry to the United States. Another 173 were stopped by airlines before boarding.

Ladies, Here Are 7 Ways To Make Your Crush Jealous

Playing hard to get is obviously a thing, but there are much better ways to get the attention of your crush: Make him real jealous. Here are some surefire ways to make him sweat.

He’ll be all yours in no time:

1. Look drop-dead gorgeous whenever he’s present.

Sweatpants are allowed in the confines of your own apartment, but when you know your crush is around, DO IT UP. That means hair, makeup, t*ts to the face and enough perfume that it smells like a Sephora fell on top of you. Even if you know he appreciates a more subtle look on you, there’s no doubt that he’ll be drooling over you in that little black dress (or whatever your equivalent to that may be). You’ll not only get his attention, but also the attention of every guy around you for miles.

2. Let him see you’re a good time.

Prove that you can enjoy yourself even when he’s not present. Be a social butterfly and let your crazy weekend stories get back to him via his circle of friends. If he’s a coworker or someone you go to school with, let him admire the work you do and let your skills speak for themselves. This is a time when it’s beneficial to be talked about. You have a life and are fully capable of continuing on even if he wasn’t in the picture. Little does he know that all you want is him snuggled up next to you… forever and ever. It’s all a twisted mind game, folks.

3. Don’t be so available.

I think the whole “waiting to send a text” game is really stupid, but in reality, it’s always best when you play hard to get. Something about being unavailable inadvertently will make your crush want you even more. If you spot him when you’re out, play it cool. Don’t run over and gawk when he’s in your line of sight. Instead, briefly say hello and continue on with your plans. Don’t change your schedule or regular plans just for his benefit. Instead of wanting to make plans with him 24/7, do the exact opposite. If you aren’t available all the time, not only will that distract you from stalking his Facebook page, but it’ll also make him want to see you more. A little give-and-take goes a long way.

4. Make sure he knows you have guy friends.

Guys are innately jealous, competitive types. Even if you’re hanging out with your best friend from the first grade (who you have no desire in touching, let alone dating), your crush will probably think you guys are hooking up. That plays to your benefit. Let him ponder whatever he likes. If he interprets you getting lunch with a guy friend as you on a date with someone else, no need to correct him. He’ll make a conscious effort to be better than all the other men you hang around with, platonically or otherwise.

5. Be flirty.

Make him seem like there are other potential options out there. Don’t shy away from snapping him pictures or “accidentally” tagging him in a photo of you with other guys (even if they’re friends). Out to dinner or at a bar? Smile at the waiter and make the most of a little bit of small talk. Bat those eyelashes a little, too. It’ll definitely rile him up. Since he’s up against competition (at least, that’s what he’ll think), he should fight for your attention and go out of his way to be number one on your list. I’m not saying you should go around rubbing against the crotch of every guy you see… but play it up like you’re a regular when it comes to playing the field. Let your eyes wander.

6. Keep things short and sweet.

It’s OK to be busy and a little bit vague when it comes to hangouts and conversations. Don’t give away all your secrets just yet. It’s important to keep him yearning for more information. If you don’t show all of your cards, it’ll make him question why you aren’t disclosing things with him. “What are you thinking about?” Well, wouldn’t he like to know…

7. Don’t make a move until you’re sure he likes you back.

Realistically, you are looking to lock this guy up. If you hold out for too long in showing affection, he may scamper off, so know how long to dangle yourself in front of him. Do what you must, but try not to push it so that he doesn’t think you’re actually not even close to interested. Playing hard to get is key, but at some point, go in for the kill and make him yours. Instead of rejecting his advances, reveal that you’ve had eyes on him all along.

MY BOSS’ WIFE: EPISODE 4

“Darling, I will be travelling this week-end.” My husband told me as soon as he returned from work.

“To where now? I’ve been waiting to tell you about the party Tonia invited us to.”

“Oh, Tonia. I would love to be there but I can’t miss the flight first thing tomorrow. There’s an important meeting I can’t but attend.” He will be meeting with Senator Ogundipe, he told me.

“That’s ok, you’ve always wanted it your way. Keep building your company and achieving your dreams while I live here lonely and always in need of you.”

“It’s not like that Tonia, you know that I love you and would do anything for you.”

“I know but you hardly touch me nowadays. I’m a woman in need of a man. Most nights while you lie down snoring away, I stay awake masturbating instead of you penetrating in between my thighs.”

“I understand baby, I will make everything up to you.” I knew though that our romantic life has ended and I have to become accustomed to the fact. Sincerely, I try seducing my husband most times but he has been as strong-minded like a zebra. I felt that the hot banging that Mr. Kayode gave me would be greater if it was my husband. I never wanted to cheat on him but the way things are going and the way I feel, I just don’t know what to do now. I wasn’t going to say yes to a life of promiscuity but Mr. Kayode has since the day I met him occupied the front page of my mind. He is the kind of man any sexy and romantic woman would love; he is an epitome of sensuous passions.

After supper that evening I changed to my most transparent nightgown, wearing nothing inside. I was just praying that my husband feels hot tonight. I’ve been longing for him. He has everything desirable in a man except his somehow busy schedules that made him forget he has a wife. Before I could focus on my thoughts, he came in without his pajamas. He was just on his boxers. I was hyped and wet and all I wanted was hot sex. I didn’t like the idea of another man touching me, no, not anymore.

Climbing the bed and pulling me close to himself, he wrapped his arms around my waist, stripping me of my nightgown as I said in a whisper: I love you baby.

“I know it’s been long baby. I love you but my commitment to duty is taking me away from you. I promise never to leave you but to spend more time with you.” I saw sincerity in his eyes as he bend downwards, giving it to me.

The following day, I accompanied him to the airport after dropping Odin in school. I was saturated with joy seeing our love life rekindled.
——————–

I was at Peter’s residence to grace their party. There were many people there, friends, relatives and well-wishers. I came with Odin, wearing something decent so as not to attract some remarks from Tonia. While Odin was playing with some of the kids that were at the party, I was speaking with Busayo even as the guests were dancing to the sound of the music.

“Tony-baby, you know where I met Peter?”

“No, I’ve never thought of it.”

“It was at Jacinta’s wedding ceremony ooo.”

“I met him while I was leaving the ceremony; he was asking me about life here in the country having just returned from overseas when our discussions turned into toasting.”

“And you just gave in?”

“Of course naah, I’m not growing any younger.”

“But you know about I and Peter already now?”

“No, you’ve never told me about that. I’ve been meaning to ask you but I have been waiting for the right time.”

“This is the right time abi? Let me tell you something.”

“Carry on dear.”

“Raymond and I met while we were serving. After being to the same camp, we were posted to the same secondary school to work. Raymond was just a perfect guy. To tell you the truth, I had a crush on him and I toasted him.”

“And he also gave in abi?”

“He had no other option.” I said and we both laughed out loud.

“Raymond is just a rare breed; a perfect guy. He’s always about his family; about his job; about his appointment; about…”

“…about his wife.” Busayo completed my statement.

The party went well, right into the night. I was enjoying the party when Odin came, calling me.

“Mummy, mummy, I want to go home.” His eyes were sleepy.

To Be Continue...

Photos of the notorious kidnapping kingpin abducted by gunmen at Owerri High Court

Unknown gunmen on Friday morning stormed the Owerri High Court  in a commando style, scared everybody off with gunshots and rescued a notorious kidnapping kingpin, Henry Chibueze a.k.a Vampire and two others.

The suspect is pictured in 2015 being paraded at the premises of Imo Police command, after his arrest following five years of unsuccessful manhunt. He was facing criminal charges bothering on armed robbery, kidnapping, murder, etc.

Five prison officials who led the suspects to the court premise received serious gun shots wounds and were rushed to the hospital. Vamoire grabbed a gun from one of the prison officials together with the one one of the gunmen gave him and started shooting sporadically.

Prior to his arrest at Ohafia, Abia State, Vampire terrorized, kidnapped and killed over 300 innocent individuals in the south East and South South Nigeria. 

During interrogation, Vampire also admitted to having abducted and murdered an official of the Imo State Environmental Transformation Commission, ENTRACO, after collecting the sum of N50 million.

The notorious criminal is believed to have murdered his girlfriend for allegedly stealing the sum of N45 million belonging to him. 

Drunk doctor allegedly kills patient during operation in Zimbabwe

A medical doctor in Zimbabwe, Henry Harry Mushuku of Gutu Mission Hospital, has allegedly killed a patient during a childbirth operation. The deceased identified as Locadi Mbindi died after the delivery of her baby two weeks ago.

According to a Zim Eye Report, Dr. Mushuku conducted the operation under the influence of alcohol resulting in the death of the patient.

But commenting on the incident, Gutu District Medical Officer, Dr. Tapiwa Mupepe, said the woman died of delivery complications.

'The woman died as a result of delivery complications and we are in the process of analysing the matter.' he said.

Masvingo Provincial Medical Director, Dr. Amadeus Shamu who also confirmed the incident said investigations were ongoing.

'I have heard about the incident but let me say investigations are under way. I can furnish you with further details after receiving a comprehensive report on the matter.'

It's however understood that the medical doctor was under the influence of alcohol when he operated on her.

Unbelievable! See The 6-Foot-Long Tapeworm Removed From A Man’s Gut In India (See Photos)

Doctors have removed a long tape worm measuring 6.6 feet long from a man’s gut after he complained of abdominal pain for two months.

Doctors in India removed a lengthy pork tapeworm from a man’s gut, according to a recent report of the man’s case.

The report according to LiveScience was performed by Dr. Cyriac Philips a liver specialist at PVS Memorial Hospital in India who treated the man. The tapeworm, which goes by the scientific name Taenia solium, was nearly 2 meters (6.6 feet) long.

The 48-year-old man told the doctors that he had been having abdominal pain for two months before he sought medical attention, according to the brief report of the man’s case, published today (Jan. 25) in The New England Journal of Medicine.

The doctors performed a colonoscopy, and found a segment of an undulating worm in the man’s colon, Philips told Live Science.

In patients with tapeworms, doctors typically find segments of the parasite in the gut, Philips said. But in this case, the piece of the parasite in the man’s colon was only a part of the story.

Next, the doctors performed an endoscopy, meaning that they inserted a camera into the man’s stomach and the upper part of his small intestine, to explore the upper part of the man’s digestive system, according to the report.

They were surprised to find a whole worm curled up in the upper part of the man’s small intestine, Philips said.

The doctors were able to remove the worm by pulling it up through the man’s mouth, according to the report. The intact tapeworm spanned 1.88 m (6.2 feet), the doctors wrote.

Relationship Tips: See How To Keep The Lady You Are Dating So Another Man Wont Take Her Away [Must Read]

Do you love your girl and you don’t want another man to snatch her from you?

Then do the following things:

1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her attention, she will not seek for attention elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else another man will.

2. Give her listening ears whenever she is speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you.

3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don’t have than to promise and fail.

4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that you don’t have, you don’t have all the time.

5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow.

6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful.

7. Tell her daily that you love her.

8. Play with her and joke with her daily.

9. Don’t be too hard and don’t be too soft. Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not over pet or over scold.

10. Love her siblings, and respect her parents.

11. Appreciate her when she helps you to do something.

12. Allow her to advise you, seek her suggestions and respect her opinions.

13. Respect her.

14. Do not take her for granted.

15. Do not cheat on her.

16. Play with her hairs

17. kiss her on her forehead, cheek and neck. It will pass a good message to her.

18. Let her sit on your lap sometimes.

Do You Want To Know If Your Man Is A Virgin? See The 4 Quick Ways To Tell If A Man Is A Virgin

Is the man you dating a virgin? There are certain tell-tale signs that can let us know if a man has had any sexual experiences or not.

The best way of getting to the bottom of this is to openly ask your man if he has had any sexual relations in the past. However, if you feel too shy to do so or are afraid of embarrassing him look no further than grab a cup of coffee and read this article on 4 quick ways to tell a man is a virgin or not.

In men, there are no physical indicators to determine their virginity. Unlike women where a hymen breaks during sexual intercourse and normally leaves a little bit of blood.

It is very unfortunate you can’t determine a man’s virginity through intercourse.

Men, however, have no physical indicators that can help us determine their virginity.

However listening to our intuition and picking up on some behavioral traits might be the key to finding out is he is sexually experienced or not.

1. Physical relationship with women

A man who is a virgin can be differentiated from a man who engages in sexual escapades by monitoring his relationship with women.  A man who is particularly shy around women and is reluctant to touch them in any way is most likely a virgin.

You might notice that, when you or another woman goes to hug or touch him, he becomes agitated and awkward, without quite knowing what to do with his hands.

2. Test the waters

If you have an inkling that your new partner might be a virgin, test the waters by planning a date and turning up the heat a little. Observe how he reacts and how he moves: this will help you determine if he has been in this situation before. His reaction might go either way:

☞ He might become very shy and be paralyzed with nerves, barely moving an inch and not daring to look at you.

☞ On the other hand, he might become overly excited and nervous and his movements will be fast and erratic. He might be jittery or clumsy in his actions and come over as a little desperate.

However, whilst we consider these to be strong indicators of a partner’s virginity, remember that they are not set in stone and are far from foolproof. They might simply be inexperienced lovers who still haven’t overcome the jitters when getting intimate with a woman, as opposed to complete virgins.

3. Quick orgasm

Men who are having sex for the first times are desensitized to their arousal and can’t control themselves to last longer in bed. In worst cases, they might not reach orgasm or have difficulty climaxing because of anxiety. They are nervous; always thinking about how they are performing in bed.

4. Clueless during love making

Having sex with a virgin can be the worst day of your life. How? He begins by touching you clumsily and quickly, without really knowing what he should do and where he should touch.

Moving their hands all over your body quickly and in a frenzy manner clearly shows they are virgins.

Note: So, as you can see, there are some signs that help you determine if your man is a virgin or not but none of them are foolproof or guaranteed. Often, you might mistake his lack of experience in the bedroom for virginity so the best thing to do is to be open and ask him outright if he is a virgin. Let him know that it’s nothing to feel embarrassed about and can actually be a positive thing (it might make lovemaking more special, no risk of STIs, etc.)

Communication is key in any relationship so bite the bullet and talk to him about it.

See The Way To Avoid Sleeping During Lectures To Get Good Grades At The End Of The Session

In order to pay attention in school you will need to try and stay awake through the lectures. It can be difficult staying awake especially during a boring lecture, but in the real sense it is impolite to the lecturer to sleep during his/her lecture.

Find it difficult staying awake during lectures? Here is how to stop sleeping during lectures.

Sit in a position that is close to the lecturer.

Sitting in front of the class directly facing the lecturer makes it easy for you to concentrate and reduces the chances of falling asleep at least not while the lecturer is staring at you.

Ask and answer questions.

When receiving lecturers it’s easier to get distracted or sleep off while the lecturer is teaching. Participating in class by asking and answering questions keeps you focused on the lecture. Take down notes and try your very best to concentrate on the lecture and avoid distractions.

Get up and walk around when you feel tired.

Staying through a long lecture can be tiring and frustrating. When you feel tired get up and move about, if the lecturer should ask why you are roaming about, explain to him/her that you need to stretch your legs.

The lecturer should understand that you need to do this to be comfortable to continue the lecture.

Make little movement while sitting in class.

Little movements like stretching in your chair or tapping your feet on the floor quietly can help in keeping your body active and prevent you from falling asleep. Do this quietly in order not to distract other students.

Sit close to the window or source of ventilation.

Poor ventilated classroom can make it easy for you to fall asleep. Sit close to the window or near the fan, this makes it easy to get good ventilation and reduces your chances of falling asleep during lectures.

Get enough sleep the night before.

The body needs up to 7hours of sleep every night, this is important to help your body work at full capacity. Getting enough sleep the night before going to lectures gets you well rested and puts your brain at optimal capacity while also reducing your chances of falling asleep during lectures.

Get enough exercise.

Exercises helps in reducing stress, blood circulation and increases the activities of the brain cells. Stick to a morning routine like jogging, trekking, running or cycling are good ways to energize the body which prepares you for a very productive day.

Eat healthy and drink enough water.

Endeavor to stick to a healthy meal plan. Avoid eating foods high on carbohydrates and fat before lectures, foods rich in proteins and minerals are necessary for brain and body development.

Take a bottle of water when sitting through long hours of lectures in case you get thirsty.

Hehe!! See Some Funny Abbreviations In Nigeria That Can Make You Roll On The Ground

Some Nigerians can be very funny. I saw these abbreviations somewhere and it caught my attention.

Take away any breakable things beside you and see the abbreviations below;

NAIRA – Never Allow Igbos Rule Again

PHCN – Problem Has Changed Name

HAUSA – House Animals Using Seat of Authority

APC – Association of Past Criminals

NYSC – Now Your Struggles Continue

PDP – People Deceiving People.

MTN – Maintain Total Nonsense

ABACHA – After Babangida Another Criminal Has Arrived

NEPA – Never Expect Power Always

BUHARI – Brought Unnecessary Hardship Among Reasonable Individuals.

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MY BOSS’ WIFE (Episode 3)

My friend, Busayo, stopped by on her way to get her wedding dress and accessories. The joy she radiated as she tells me about her fiancé made me jealous. We were classmates in the university; she was busy pursuing a career when I married Raymond. I’m happy that she has found her right hand man now. “Tonia, Peter is the man I’ve been waiting for all my life.” She spoke so gloriously in her British tainted accent. “Oh, I’m so happy for you. I’ve been waiting all the while for this to happen.” “Thank you Tony-baby, I was wondering if you could accompany me to purchase my wedding accessories.” “That’s no problem. Raymond and Odin have gone to school and work, what will I be doing in this house all alone? Let’s go get some amazing things in the market my dear.” “Hey, I’ve got news for you. My husband is organizing a small party for just close friends this Saturday; I would love for you and Raymond to be there.” “I hope Ray will not be in the office this week- end like he does nearly every week in the name of supervising his accountants and auditors ooo?” “I pray so dear because I would not be happy at all if the both of you can’t make it; who else I know again?.” “So how is peter?” I asked. “Trust me, my Peter is the best man that have come into my life. He’s handsome, hardworking, caring and really romantic.” “You are highly lucky my dear.” “Why are you saying that? What about Ray, I used to have a crush on him ooh until I met Peter.” “I hope you were not playing with my husband?” “Nope, how can I do such a thing; that’s the last thing I would do, no, not to my best friend.” “Give me a minute dear; let me quickly change so that we can go shopping. This reminds me of the day I and Raymond were going shopping for our own wedding ceremony.” “I’m also happy for you two.” As I turned, going to my room and channeling the Dstv to Telemundo, I rushed to my room to dress up. It’s been long I wore any of my innumerable jean trousers. I decided to go so youngish by wearing a jean trouser with a white top. When I came to the sitting room, Busayo blurted: “What is this, are you going on a date?” “Date ke, I need to relax in something simple once in a while since I’m not with a stranger.” “That’s okay but I’m jealous ooh. Are you the one getting married or I am?” “Better mellow your mind and let’s go shopping.” I burst with excitement, laughing out loud as I switched off the Dstv and telly respectively. ——————– After shopping, I sighted Mr. Kayode entering his car as we just got out of the shopping mall. “Kayode.” I called but he didn’t hear me. “Kayode, Kayode, Kayode.” I shouted and he turned, facing me. “Hi Mrs. Raymond.” He was polite but not like the other day when he was calling me ‘ma’am’ like I was an elderly woman. “Hi Kayode.” I responded gently and gingerly as Busayo pinched me, asking who he was. “He’s my husband’s employee.” I told her. “I can see your hands are full, that’s evidence of extravagant shopping.” He said, smiling. “My friend is about to wed and we came buying her wedding accessories.” “I can see.” He said, saying hi to Busayo as she responded simply. “What brought you here?” I was prying into his affairs. “I actually stopped by to see my wife before I leave for the office. I’ll be working long hours today, so I came to let her know.” It’s not as if I expected a man of his age to still be single but I had to admit, I was envious and disappointed in finding out that some lucky woman out there was getting all of him. “That’s good. You are a good husband.” “Ok, I have to be on my way now.” “That’s alright, bye!” I said as I turned, walking to Busayo’s car, shaking my butt as his eyes were all on me. “What did you just do? You know you’re a married woman?” Tonia said, making a fuss. “Don’t worry, he’s just one of those diligent employees of my husband.” “But you saw how you shook your behind and he was staring at you like his girl friend.” “Oh, he was staring at me, don’t mind that man joor. Let’s get going.” I turned around to see if he was still there with a huge smile on my face. We Don’t Need Anything From You But Your Comments.So Please Comment after Reading.Thanks **Watch Out For Part 4**